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Fashion Friday: Baby B at 16 weeks

May 11, 2007 by Lisa

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What’s more fashionable than a baby belly I ask you? Yes, Baby B is making his/her first appearance on Fashion Friday, proving that it’s what’s on the inside that really matters.

Yesterday’s OB appt. went great. Jeff was finally able to come with (thank you, Mammma and Dopop!) and hear the heartbeat. I swear his face literally lights up when he hears that sound. The doctor said it was “very strong,” which made Jeff practically radiate.

The actual heartbeat was around 154 and I am measuring exactly where I should be. And I finally gained weight — 6 lbs in 5 weeks! I knew I had caught up because I have been really hungry, despite the fact that I can only taste 50 percent of what I’m eating.

Speaking of which, Dr. F did ask me to try and watch my diet to try and control the gestational diabetes from kicking in, which I was planning on doing anyway. I’ve been splurging the last few weeks, and I can feel that it’s time to cut back — for the baby’s sake that is. Emma only got nutritious foods (and still does), and this baby deserves the same.

No major movement yet, but I thought I felt a few flutters the other night. I felt Emma early on, but I’ve also had more gas issues with this baby, so who knows. I just can’t wait to feel that popcorn popping in my belly again. What an awesome feeling. God is so creative!

Oh yeah — they’ve moved my due date back to my 30th birthday, Oct. 23. That’s so much more fun to tell people anyway! Basically, my last period indicates a due date of Oct. 20, the ultrasound shows Oct. 26, and my estimated conception date puts us at Oct. 25. Therefore, he said let’s shoot for the middle to be safe, and no more changes. Sounds good to me!

After riding home from the doctor yesterday, Jeff kinda confessed he’d like a boy this time. I actually said it for him because I could tell that’s what he was thinking. Of course, he would love for another girl to melt his heart like Emma does, but I also understand every man’s desire for a son. Me? I honestly don’t care. A girl would be easier, of course, but having a little boy to love would be awesome too. A sister for Emma would be wonderful, but having a boy to keep her in check 😉 has it’s benefits too. We win either way!

We also talked about finding out the sex of the baby, but I’m dead set against it. I am a planner, yes, but this is the one thing in life that I want to be a surprise. There’s really no medical reason to find out, so I don’t feel compelled to do it. To be fair, we always said we’d be surprised on the first, but would find out with the second. But… it was so much fun being “wrong” with Emma. Everyone was so surprised, and it also gave Jeff the joy of sharing news only he could share. He says he’s willing to give that up, but I’m not. I like that only God knows what we’re having. It’s His gift to us, and I don’t want to open my gift up early. It’s worth the wait for me.

Emma still doesn’t quite understand what’s going on with Mommy, but she does rub and kiss my belly every day to say hi to the baby. She says baby, but I know there’s no way she really gets it. Still, it’s fun to see how loving she can be — even to a pushed out belly button!

Well, that’s the update on our second little babe. Updates on our first babe to come early next week… with lots of pictures. Until then, Happy Mother’s Day everyone. Enjoy your kiddies!

Baby is Good!

April 6, 2007 by Lisa

Today was my second OB appoitment and all is well with Baby B #2. Although I haven’t been as worried since I.ALREADY.HAVE.A.BUMP. Seriously, at barely 11 weeks, I am noticeably showing. I’ve even had a few people comment so I know I’m not crazy. I thought 13 weeks with Emma was soon, but at this rate, I will be rolling down the aisle at my sister’s wedding in September. God has a great sense of humor that way! :o)

Anyway, heartbeat is strong at 156. And well, that’s about it. I waited for about 2 hours for a 5-minute appointment, but I have to say I do love hearing that heartbeat. Even with the tummy, that sound makes it all so much more real. As I chase Emma around, I tend to forget that there’s another little one in our lives. That is, of course, until 3pm hits. THEN I remember as I stare longly at the couch… (and as I justify downing an entire bag of Chex Mix!)

Unfortunately, Jeff hasn’t been able to come to any of our appointments yet — even the ultrasound — so he’s pretty bummed. We tried to make it work tonight, but because of the 2-hour wait, Jeff had to relieve our wonderful babysitter (thanks Aunt Nenni!) who had a previously made appointment. Anyway, I feel bad because I don’t think this baby is that real to him yet, and I’m already feeling guilty like this baby is getting slighted. But that’s life when you already have a child, right? Anyway, we are going to do our best to make sure Jeff can be at the next appointment, even if Emma has to come with. I’m just not so sure how happy a tot will be after 2 hours in a waiting room. Won’t that be a fun post to read!

So that’s the scoop. Stay tuned for Fashion Friday!

Pizza Anyone???

March 28, 2007 by Lisa

I passed the 3-hour (at least for now). Wooooo-hoooooo!!

Do you think it would be strange to place a pizza order for tonight… even thought it’s only 12pm???

The Details

March 26, 2007 by Lisa

So now you all know we have another bun in the oven. :o) It was kind of a surprise, but not completely. Either way, we’re pretty darn excited around here. (And thank you all for your kind words. Blogging friends rock!)

I’ve had two dreams so far that this baby is a boy, but with all the drama we’ve had in the last 9.5 weeks, I’m thinking it’s a girl! ;o)

Not really bad drama, just drama. First, we didn’t know my due date because my cycle has been so goofy (hence the new baby!), so we had to have an ultrasound to get a firm due date. For some reason that made me a little nervous…like my OB “knew” something I didn’t and wanted to make sure all was well. Plus, when he did my internal, he said I felt a little smaller than the due date on the chart.

The funny part is that I pretty much know when this baby was conceived (sorry, Mom!), so I knew I was later than the “chart,” but still, there’s always that little voice in your head that makes you nervous.

So the ultrasound went fine. I’m due Oct. 26 — 3 days after my 30th birthday! This, of course, means I was being totally silly, but it was long 2 weeks of trying to convince myself not to worry. (Does anyone else worry about worrying?)

AND THEN my OB had my sugar levels checked. Yes, that lovely 1-hour test we all hate. I had gestational diabetes (gd) with Emma, so he just wanted to make sure everything was normal. I didn’t think anything of it until I got the message that I had very much flunked the 1-hour test. And I had to take the 3-hour test ASAP.

At first I was frustrated that I might have gd so early, which means no fun food (chocolate!), a very firm eat schedule (who has time to eat every 2-3 hours with a busy toddler?), and finger prick 3 times a day. Ugh!

I called him back for more info, but he never returned my call. It was a Friday, so they were gone by 1pm. It was 2pm, and I did the worst thing I could have done: I went to the Internet.

That’s when all sorts of statistics started popping up about birth defects and the fact that I may have never gotten rid of the diabetes in the first place, meaning I might have a mild case of type 2 diabetes — permanently. Unfortunately, it didn’t sound too far off base since I’ve been to the doctor a few times for random bruising. Enough bruising that he even checked my sugar levels, but he never did a glucose test.

I started to think the worst.

Needless to say, it was a long weekend. I was mad at my family doctor for possibly missing the fact that I had developed diabetes. I was mad at my OB for not calling me back. And I was mad at myself for being so “whatever” about this pregnancy. Had I known, we would have been more responsible. This baby deserved a fair chance from the start.

ANYWAY, my OB finally called back on Monday and made me feel much better. He was very casual and didn’t seem too worried about it. He just wanted me to get the 3-hour test done, and we’d go from there. Ya know, the rational way of looking at all of this. Even so, I decided to start following the gd diet just in case.

Of course, this all involved a lot of praying (and crying — pregnancy hormones really mess with you!), and — as always — God is so good. I don’t have the results back yet, but my test on Saturday couldn’t have gone better. For those of you who remember last time, I was beyond sick… as in curled up in the fetal position for the entire 3-hours trying not to pass out and puke.

I’m hopeful that my lack of reaction means I don’t have gd (at least yet), but that will mean I have to take it again in 15 weeks. Oh well. That’s what this whole parenting thing is about, right? Emma is concrete evidence that it’s all worth it. Yes, even the lack of chocolate!

So that’s the scoop. I’ll keep you posted once I get the results — hopefully by Wednesday!

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I am a great many things: a "mom in progress" to three beautiful girls; a wife to my favorite person; a daughter of Christ; a writer; a lover of good coffee; a recovering perfectionist; and a hopeful romantic learning to find peace and joy in God alone. This is my story and His story.

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