Today, during lunch, Brooklyn asked me a question that stopped me in my tracks. I had been washing dishes — those annoying ones that can’t go in the dishwasher — and thinking about absolutely nothing. I could hear the crunch of Brooklyn’s carrot and feel the warm suds on my hands, but my mind was at rest. This may not seem like a big deal, but for someone who overthinks and overanalyzes and always has something on her mind (just ask my hubby), that in itself was a big deal. But what was even more amazing was the question that came out of my daughter’s mouth:
“Mommy, why are you smiling?”
And you know what? I couldn’t answer her. I didn’t even know I had been smiling.
For the last few weeks, I have been spending a lot of time digging around my soul and doing some much needed work. I have been drowning out the world and seeking more time with God. I have been letting go of myself and offering my everything to figure out what is next for my life. I believe they call that surrender.
I am still digging, still praying, and still figuring it out, but in the process, I have felt an amazing sense of contentment that I have not felt in a long time. In some ways, I am emotionally exhausted, but at the same time, I have this overwhelming feeling of peace and security that comes from knowing I am living for something bigger than myself. That the world and its approval no longer matters. I am learning who I am, what I was made for, and where my heart belongs. I believe they call that joy.
Joy. It is such a powerful word. To me, it represents so much more than happiness. Too many people treat happiness as a destination, but it’s not. It’s a fleeting emotion. But joy…to me, joy is something to strive for. It is learning to live this life with hope, compassion, and love, regardless of the circumstances. To walk the walk and talk the talk with such grace that it flows freely and naturally. To smile without even realizing it.
A few months ago, someone shared this translation of Matthew 11:28-30 with me, and I just can’t stop reading it:
“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.” (Matthew 11:28-30 MSG)
Learn the unforced rhythms of grace… to live freely and lightly….
Yes, that is what I want. That is what I am seeking. More than answers, more than a fleeting sense of happiness, more than this world, I want those things, and I think I am getting closer. The more time I spend with Him — the more I am distracted by Him — the more I am enjoying this life.
I believe they call that salvation.
